Fate - Our background story

I would absolutely be lying if I said I didn't believe in fate. I'm standing here on the edge of the rest of my life and I realize how everything in my entire world has been headed towards this point. I'll start from the beginning. My parents could have decided to stay in California, they could have picked another town in Idaho, they could have picked a totally different state, and things wouldn't have happened the way they have happened. But no, they picked here.

And in 2000 when FH went to boarding school, his parents, who lived in Colorado could have picked any boarding school in the country. But they picked the one just 30 minutes away from where I live. FH could have gotten into trouble and not been able to go on the Field trip to the bay, but he went, and knew that one day he would be back. His parents could've decided not to visit and just wait for FH to come home but they visited, and realized that this was a place that could be home. They could have picked a different place to build a house, there are a lot of great spots on the lake, but they chose the cabin one door down from N.R.'s family cabin.


I was never supposed to be with N.R., but I was supposed to meet him, have crush on him in high school, and then become friends with him. He could have been in a different Fraternity, and I in a different Sorority, but no we were in the houses that were next door to each other.

I could have worked at a differen't restaurant that summer. I possible woudln't have even worked that day, but I did. FH and his family could have come in a half hour later or chosen a different restaurant and we wouldn't have met but we did.

My friend N.R. could have stayed at his house in town that day, but instead he was out at the cabin, where FH told him about me. It was a few nights later that N.R. invited me out to his cabin to meet FH, I could've been busy, I couldve said no. But I said yes and I rushed out as soon as I was off work.

Upon meeting him, I fell completely into him. We were hooked and that was the end of it.

Now that I am planning our wedding, everything is coming together uncannily well. It is all being orchastrated perfectly.

I have my dream dress - Another post coming about my dress. And I couldn't have gotten it if my favorite designer wasn't going out of business at the end of the year. I found a photographer for under $500 because she wants to expand her portfolio.

Yes, I believe in Fate. Because my whole life has been planned with me in mind. Good things are to come. And this wedding is important, it's going to be the gunshot that starts everything else.